We made probably our last contact from one of the old photos.
Aline in '82-'83 (left) |
That's her on the left, with the snappy orange knit shoulder bag, and the furrowed brow, wondering who this strange guy is, camera hanging at his waist. They never actually saw me take the photo, you know.
We finally met Aline (ahleena) on our last day in Madiun, before leaving on our next leg to Bali. She restores our faith that there may be enough sensible people here to stem the tide of conservative religious fervor, an independent thinking young woman with one daughter and a husband, running her own business. Hard working, expecting a better life for her and her family to result from her efforts and that of her professional husband, she was a pleasure to meet and have conversation with. And, her English is undoubtedly better than my Indonesian. We went back and forth with emails and conflicting schedules and locations for a number of weeks, and finally in Madiun we were able to sit together and share philosophies. With similar ambitions, not too unlike that of any modern Western woman, she has purchased a small shop where does a retail business, and where her family resides in the back half. Aline expects men and women to treat her with respect, maintains a measure of independence, and wants a good life for her daughter. Bombing Western chain hotels is the furthest thing from her mind. Her husband is supportive so I think they'll probably make it, and next time, hopefully, we can meet him too. For Aline material things are important, but not so important as to disrupt family ties, and friendships. You'd like her as much as Pat and I do.
Aline 2012 |